The rise of the doula

Posted April 21st, 2013 in Birth Doula, Birth Doula in Fresno, Fresno birth, Fresno Birth Doula by Kathryn DiPalma

I just read this great article from WA Today and thought I would share it with you!

 

As the rate of caesarean deliveries steadily rises, so is the ‘trend’ of  pregnant women employing a birth support person – a doula – to prepare for and  help her with the big event of giving birth.

Over the past 10 years, the caesarean section rate in Australia increased from 23.3 per cent in 2000 to a peak of 31.5 per cent in 2009, according to the Australian Institute of Health and Welfare.

If you don’t know what your choices are, you don’t have  any.

Caesarean rates are among the highest in Western  Australia with 33.3 per cent, together with Queensland.

She said the vocation of becoming a doula was quite accidental, and started  when one of her girlfriends, inspired by Gaby’s own positive birth experience,  asked her to be with her when she delivered her son.

“When my girlfriend had her baby, she wanted me to be there and help her  create that atmosphere. I really didn’t know what my role was, didn’t know what  a doula was, I just knew that me being there would help her be calm and focused  within,” she said.

“It wasn’t until five years after I’ve been attending births that someone  said ‘oh, you’re a doula’ and I was so shocked there was a word for it and  [after researching it] I discovered there was a whole movement.

“I was the only doula in Perth at that time as far as I knew.”

Gaby describes a doula as a support person, who gives women in their birthing  experience emotional help.

Contrary to midwives, doulas have no medical role in the birthing suite and  only offer advice when explicitly asked. But she said her real focus is  delivering effective child birth education  before the big event.

She said the vocation of becoming a doula was quite accidental, and started  when one of her girlfriends, inspired by Gaby’s own positive birth experience,  asked her to be with her when she delivered her son.

“When my girlfriend had her baby, she wanted me to be there and help her  create that atmosphere. I really didn’t know what my role was, didn’t know what  a doula was, I just knew that me being there would help her be calm and focused  within,” she said.

“It wasn’t until five years after I’ve been attending births that someone  said ‘oh, you’re a doula’ and I was so shocked there was a word for it and  [after researching it] I discovered there was a whole movement.

“I was the only doula in Perth at that time as far as I knew.”

Gaby describes a doula as a support person, who gives women in their birthing  experience emotional help.

Contrary to midwives, doulas have no medical role in the birthing suite and  only offer advice when explicitly asked. But she said her real focus is  delivering effective child birth education  before the big event.

“I used to be a doula that just turned up for the birth, but I realised after  the first 10 years – which I call my ‘apprentice years’ – that really the focus  and effort is about the work I do prior to the birth.”

The concept of an experienced woman attending birth is not new, she said, and  can be found in various indigenous cultures around the world. She said doulas  used to be called god sibs or montrice.

“Aboriginal women had them forever, known as Charrlies and in Japan they are  called Josanp,” she said.

“It’s not a new thing but has become en vogue because there is such a high intervention rate  and the medical model is so powerful in the hospitals that women’s births have  been seen as a medical procedure and not something that’s a natural  process”.

Around 2004 there was an influx of women asking for birth support, Gaby said,  who is actively involved in training  doulas.

Gaby, who describes herself as “a guardian of natural birth” is very  passionate about helping women have the most natural birthing experience they  can have and take away their fears and apprehensions.

Gaby said she believes what she calls “the cascade of intervention” was a  factor explaining the rising rate of caesarean deliveries in Australia.

“Women need to know that the smallest amount of intervention can snowball. A  lot of women end up with caesareans because they were induced.

A major focus for Gaby is tackling the trend of women electing for caesarean  births, which is also on the rise.

“They miss out on a beautiful experience. It’s the most divine experience a  woman can go through.

She said while most partners are welcoming her into the delivery suite to  take the pressure off and provide a calm and relaxed environment through her  experience, she sometimes faced hostility from medical staff.

“In a lot of the private hospitals here in Perth the midwives really are  hostile to me,” she said.

“They see me as a threat. They even got to a point where you have to sign a  consent form that you won’t speak to your client, or encourage them or give them  advice at any time.”

Gaby found that her skills are gaining acceptance by the medical profession,  and her new book A Labour Of Love II proudly features a foreword  written by Perth’s Professor Fiona Stanley.

With the new book, the sequel to her first birthing guide A Labour Of Love,  Gaby aims to “empower through knowledge to give women the birth they want”.

“If you don’t know what your choices are, you don’t have any,” she said.

“Should you need medical interventions, you can’t feel disappointed if you  have put everything into your mental and physical preparations. People spend  more money on their cot, their prams and their baby car seats etc than what they  do on education. Birth education is invaluable.”

Topics discussed in the new book also include optimal foetal positioning,  mental preparation, and techniques such as imagineering, hypnosis and several  other alternative therapies like acupuncture, acupressure and homeopathy.

Read more: http://www.watoday.com.au/national/health/the-rise-of-the-doula-20130408-2hhg8.html#ixzz2R4JGqdKh

Prenatal Yoga

Posted March 15th, 2013 in Birth Doula, Birth Doula in Fresno, CA, Fresno Birth Doula by Kathryn DiPalma

Have you ever thought of doing yoga…especially while you are pregnant?  I can tell you, the mamas that attend prenatal yoga, have better births than those who do not.  In prenatal yoga, mamas learn about their bodies in a way that they don’t learn from anything else.  They learn about positions, how to breath and how to really concentrate on the different parts of their bodies with their minds.  In Fresno, Marie DiBona – Herzog teaches the best prenatal yoga classes EVER!  Please consider taking part in her classes. You won’t be disappointed!!

Prenatal Yoga
with Marie DiBona-Herzog
Mondays, March 25-April 22
& April 29-June 3
(No class on Memorial Day, May 27)
5:30-6:45pm
$65 for the 5-week session or $15 for a single class
To register online click here: http://www.coilyoga.com/workshops.html#prenatal

Happy Birthday Lucas!

Posted February 13th, 2013 in Uncategorized by Kathryn DiPalma

Happy first birthday Lucas! You entered this world very quickly and you have the cutest smile in the world!

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My Lending Library

Posted December 8th, 2012 in Birth Doula, Birth Doula in Fresno, Fresno birth, Fresno Birth Doula by Kathryn DiPalma

This is only a part of my dvd lending library that is available for all of my clients!

 

Posted December 7th, 2012 in Babies, Birth Doula in Fresno, Fresno birth, Fresno Birth Doula, Uncategorized by Kathryn DiPalma

A year ago, I was blessed to attend 2 births in 1 day!

Happy Birthday Audrina!

Happy Birthday Lucas!

And a few days before this  Sweet Georgia was born!

Happy Birthday Georgia!

The Birth of Abigail Jean…

Posted December 4th, 2012 in Birth Doula, doula, fresno, Fresno birth, Fresno Birth Doula by Kathryn DiPalma

The following birth story was written by one of my clients.  I have been granted permission to put it on my blog to share with you.

The Birth of Abigail Jean

by Sara Dearden on Thursday, November 1, 2012 at 10:38am ·

This is Abby’s birth story except told through the eyes of my Husband, Scott. About an hour or 2 after she was born he decided to write it all down because we were afraid that we would forget something later on.

“Labor began at 7 am with strong, low contractions and Sara’s bag of water leaking. She got a shower, ate breakfast, and had contractions until around 8am. We started timing them and they were 8 minutes apart and lasting 45seconds to 1 min 15sec. Sara knew “this was it.” At close to 9am I (Scott) finished packing the car. We call our Doctors office, Doula and Doula-in-training to let them all know that we were headed to the hospital. Sara contractions were now 5 minutes apart.

We left for Central Valley Hospital around 9:15ish and arrived around 9:40 am. On the way, Sara’s contractions got down to 2-3mins apart. With no space in the parking lot, we had to drive around the corner to turn around and park on the street. With ever stronger contractions, Sara said, “I don’t think I can do this anymore.” What I heard was ” I AM IN TRANSITION!!!” From the car to the hospital door Sara had four more contractions. On the last one, on the sidewalk in front of hospital, she said “I feel like I have to push.” I encouraged her not to push, but instead to grunt through it and to wait until we were checked in.

Sara was very concerned with timing contractions. She would apologize every time she forgot to hack the stopwatch when another one started. When we got to labor and delivery the nurse took our info and asked us to wait while they got us checked in. Sara felt like she couldn’t sit down without pushing, and had several contractions leaning against me. She felt like she had to pee and maybe that would take some of the pressure off, so I asked where the bathroom was that she could use. They took her to the room where they bathe and evaluate newborns after birth and let her use the bathroom in there. I followed her in to be supportive and to my surprise another one was just starting. Sara threw the plastic pee cup that she had be given and she held herself above the toilet with her hands and screamed that she needed to push and really started screaming. The nurses came in quickly. One threw a towel on the floor and the other looked between Sara’s legs and yelled, “The Baby’s crowning!!!” We got her off the toilet and the nurses wanted her to lay down but I(and she) wanted to squat. We came to a compromise of sitting with me behind her. Sara was screaming like a banshee (in my ear of course, and the tile-covered bathroom did not help muffle the sound at all!!!) but the midwife on duty told her to stop screaming and focus that energy into pushing (Sara would later tell me that, that was the best piece of advice that anyone gave her). As Sara leaned back into me with chin on chest and four good pushes, Abigail was born.

As Sara picked up and held a screaming Abby for the first time, the nurses clamped and cut the cord, took her to the warming table, and helped Sara onto the bed that had been rolled into the room. Abby measured in a 7lbs 8oz and 20inches long. She scored perfect on the apgar test. Sara was almost given pitocin to help deliver the placenta, but I covered where they were about to inject her and stated “No Meds,” and the nurse thanked me. The nurses never had the chance or time to look at the birth-plan and I found the one that I was going to hand them crumpled and a little blood splattered in the corner of the bathroom. Sara only had a small tear that needed two stitches. Abby was born at 10am 10/12/12. Forty mins later we were in a room on the Maternity ward.”

Abby’s birth was a huge surprise. If you would have told me that labor was only going to 3 hours and I would have my baby in the bathroom before the Doctor could make it I would have laughed:) But when my Doctor did make it in to see us he said that we made history that day because NO ONE had ever delivered in that bathroom or that quickly in that hospital. I also have a better understanding of why so many of my friends prefer a Midwife to a Doctor. It was nice to have someone who was supportive of everyone needs throughout this experience. If there is a next baby I think we may look into that option a little more closely:) But Ms. Abigail has been a blessing and joy to are little family and I can’t wait to see what God has planned for my little whirlwind as she grows-up.

More babies!

Posted November 12th, 2012 in Birth Doula, Fresno birth, Fresno Birth Doula, Newborns by Kathryn DiPalma

My last two births have been repeat clients.  It has been fun beingon the birth team again, and the family feeling that has been established before we even get to the hospital.  Thank you Co Family and the Leach Family!

Oct 12, 2012

What an amazing day!!  2 beautiful, healthy babies in 12 hours, in 2 different towns, 50 miles apart, = 16 pounds.13 oz of true love!

A Mom’s Day with Food!

Posted September 29th, 2012 in Uncategorized by Kathryn DiPalma

Who can relate??